In her memoir Paris, My Sweet: A Year in the City of Light, Amy Thomas wrote, “I guess it goes to show that you just never know where life will take you. You search for answers. You wonder what it all means. You stumble, and you soar. And, if you’re lucky, you make it to Paris for a while.” I am feeling lucky indeed, but how does one say goodbye to this unique and amazing city? This is a question I have pondered these last few days.
One way, of course, is you don’t actually say goodbye but rather just take a leave. You leave some things on your to-do list undone so there is good reason to return. You can see from what remains on my list that I have done exactly this. What you can’t see is that I have a whole new list in my head of possibilities I was unaware of before this trip. Through photos and momentos, you can preserve the trip and revisit the highlights to give the illusion of having never left. Another way, thanks to a thoughtful Mother’s Day gift from my son and his family, is to hire a taxi with a driver that loves his Paris and take a late night tour of the City of Light.
We made a curcuit of the city, revisiting most of the places I have enjoyed spending time this past month. When possible we stopped so I could get out and take photos. As we drove, I shared with Tony the adventures Sheila and I had at each spot. What a wonderful way to relive the joy, the laughter, and even the frustration. My body was ready for the departure when I woke up yesterday morning: now my heart and soul are ready as well. I have said my goodbye even while nurturing the possibility of a return.
Sheila doesn’t see well at night which is why she did not accompany me on this late night adventure. It’s a good thing, too, because she is not a night owl and I didn’t return until after midnight. Once again I was reminded that Paris comes alive at night with people and traffic everywhere. Not as busy as in the daytime, but far from quiet and deserted. It is after three in the morning here and still just under eighty degrees. But the day will start early, so I had best say goodnight. I hope each and every one of you has enjoyed sharing this travel adventure with us.